

I’m Jeremy Swink — a husband, a father, a veteran, a leader, and a man who rebuilt his life through clarity, alignment, and hard-earned experiences.
My journey hasn’t been perfect, and it hasn’t been easy. I’ve lived through seasons of confusion, pressure, burnout, and moments where I questioned who I was supposed to be. I’ve had to rebuild myself more than once — not from theory or books, but from real life, real responsibility, and real consequences.
What I teach today comes from the same process that stabilized my own life:
Getting brutally honest with myself
Establishing structure and discipline
Learning how to lead without losing myself
Realigning my values, priorities, and habits
Finding clarity after feeling lost
Rebuilding confidence one step at a time
I don’t pretend to be perfect or above anyone. I’m just a man who’s walked through a lot, learned a lot, and now uses that experience to help others find direction, purpose, and strength — in life and in business.
Whether I’m coaching someone through a major life transition, helping a founder stabilize their business, or working with someone who just wants to get their life back on track, my approach is the same:
Real conversation. Real strategy. Real alignment. No fluff. No gimmicks. No BS.
If you’re here to learn more about who I am and how I think, you’re in the right place. This site is a window into the work I do, but more importantly, it’s a window into the man behind it.








My life hasn’t been a straight line. It hasn’t been perfect. And it damn sure hasn’t been easy.
I didn’t grow into the man I am today by skating through life or pretending everything was fine. I became who I am because life forced me to face myself — the good, the bad, and the ugly.
I grew up learning how to push through, how to survive, how to take hits and keep moving. The military shaped a lot of who I became early on — discipline, structure, leadership, responsibility. But even that didn’t prepare me for some of the shit life throws at you when the uniform comes off.
I’ve had seasons where I lost my direction.
Times where I didn’t recognize the man in the mirror.
Times where stress, pressure, or life circumstances tried to break me.
But here’s the truth I learned the hard way:
You must put GOD first above all.
No one is coming to save you.
You rebuild your life with your own two hands.
And that’s exactly what I’ve done — more than once.
Through failures.
Through transitions.
Through heartbreak.
Through rebuilding my identity.
Through figuring out who the hell I really am.
Through the moments where you either rise or you fall apart.
Meeting my wife, building a family, and starting a life in the Philippines changed me again — in the best way. I learned what real partnership looks like. What real responsibility looks like. What it means to be a husband, a father, a man others depend on.
And with that came clarity.
Structure.
Alignment.
A whole new version of myself.
I stopped trying to be who other people expected me to be.
Stopped carrying shit that wasn’t mine.
Stopped shrinking who I was to make others comfortable.
Stopped pretending I had to follow the “traditional” version of success.
I chose to build a life that actually fits me.
A life that feels honest.
A life built on purpose, not pressure.
I’ve learned that alignment isn’t just a concept —
it’s the difference between living and just existing.
That’s why I talk the way I talk.
That’s why I live the way I live.
That’s why I tell the truth, even when it’s uncomfortable.
That’s why I swear a little — it’s who the fuck I am.
And that’s why I show up for the people who come to me.
Not because I’m perfect.
Not because I have all the answers.
But because I’ve walked through enough shit to know what it takes to rebuild your life for real — not on Instagram, not in theory, but in the trenches.
This is my journey.
Not polished. Not filtered.
Just real.
And if you’re reading this, maybe you’re on your own journey too.
I don’t believe in pretending life is easy. I don’t believe in shortcuts, fake positivity, or saying the right thing just to look good.
Life is messy, complicated, painful, beautiful, and worth fighting for — all at the same damn time.
Over the years, I’ve learned what actually matters to me.
What I stand on.
What I refuse to compromise.
What guides the way I live, lead, and show up.
Here’s my code.
You are responsible for your life.
Your choices, your habits, your standards, your outcomes — all of it.
No excuses. No blaming. No bullshit.
When your life matches your values, everything moves smoother.
When it doesn’t, everything feels heavy.
Alignment is the difference between surviving and actually living.
Truth isn’t always comfortable, but it’s always needed.
Lies keep you stuck.
Honesty sets you free — especially the honesty you have with yourself.
Not the military kind — the life kind.
Clarity, routines, boundaries, priorities.
Without them, chaos runs your life.
With them, you run your life.
I’m not religious. I’m spiritual, grounded, and connected.
I believe in something bigger than us.
I believe we’re all here for a reason.
I believe our stories matter.
My wife and kids are the center of my world.
Everything I build is for them.
Family isn’t a hashtag — it’s a responsibility and an honor.
You can fall apart and still get back up.
You can start over at any age.
You can rebuild yourself — again and again — and become better every time.
No masks. No fake personas.
No pretending your shit doesn’t stink.
Life gets easier when you stop pretending.
Not saving them.
Not fixing them.
Not telling them what to do.
Just guiding them to who they already are under all the noise.



I help people get aligned — in life, in business, and as leaders.
Not the fluffy kind of “alignment” you see on Instagram.
I’m talking about the real shit:
Getting your mind clear
Getting your priorities straight
Getting your life and business moving in the same direction
Cutting out the chaos, confusion, and self-sabotage
And actually building momentum you can sustain
Because most people aren’t broken —
they’re just out of alignment.
This is the work I do every day:
Life Coaching: Helping people get clear, stable, confident, and grounded so they stop drifting and finally take control of their life again.
Business Coaching: Fixing systems, leadership, boundaries, operations, and client experience so your business stops draining you and starts supporting your life.
Hybrid Coaching: For people who need both — because your life and business are connected whether you admit it or not.
Elite Mentorship: Reserved for people who want deep support, serious accountability, and real change. No dabblers. No tourists.
I don’t sugar-coat anything.
I don’t blow smoke up your ass.
And I don’t sell magic formulas.
I help you fix the real problems — the ones that have been slowing you down for years.
I’m not here to be some influencer or polished “life guru.”
I’m here because I’ve lived the chaos, rebuilt myself from the ground up,
and I know what real alignment feels like — and what it costs to get there.
I help people rebuild themselves the same way I rebuilt myself — through truth, structure, and real alignment. No fluff. No filtered bullshit. Just what actually works.
No sugarcoating. No pretending. Growth starts with honesty.
When your life matches your values, everything changes.
Your life. Your choices. Your direction. No excuses. No bullshit.
I rebuilt my life more than once — through burnout, pressure, failure,
and seasons where I didn’t recognize who I was anymore.
What I teach now is what saved me: clarity, structure, responsibility, and alignment.
This is why I do the work I do.
Personal Coaching
Get clear on who you are, what you want, and what actually matters.
We’ll work on your habits, mindset, boundaries, and daily rhythm so life feels lighter, calmer, and more you again.
Learn about Personal Coaching
Business & Leadership Coaching
For founders and leaders who are tired of running on chaos.
We’ll simplify your systems, tighten your operations, and strengthen your leadership so your business stops owning you and starts working with you.
Learn about Business Coaching
Hybrid Coaching & Deep-Dive Mentorship
When life and business are completely intertwined, we work on both.
This is a deeper, longer-term partnership focused on alignment, growth, and building a life and business you’re actually proud to live in every day.
Explore Hybrid & Mentorship
Let’s talk about what you actually need.

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